Yuhin....

Hmmm.. the title means, I am writing this post just like tht :)

I wanna talk about so many things rite now that I am not able to decide what to write about first!!

Anyways, have to start with something.. let me start with ppl being sensitive... We cant call ppl who easily get hurt if only nything sounded/looked offensive to them and targetted them as sensitive, can we?! About themselves, everyone(read "most of them") will be sensitive. The true meaning of sensitive is how well that person can know what effect things have on ppl other than himself/herself and let me tell you, this is not rocket science :). Many ppl are not sensitive in a way that, their attitude will be," I will tell/do what I want, if it hurts others, its not my fault!". This attitude is in a way good, coz it will make ppl realise that ppl, dont try to hurt others, its just that ppl do what they want and do not think more than tht.... like what effect will the things they do will have on their friends/others in general. So its more like, being sensitive is not good/bad, its just like, few ppl are sensitive and others not, as simple as that :D

There is a limit for one to feel responsible about things. One has to realise that there is only so much a person can do in every situation. No one is in control of things, infact no one can be in control of anything other than only one thing, that is himself/herself. This would mean that, one should never be upset about things which are beyond ones control. Being upset never helps anyone/anything. But infact thinking what can be done about it helps. Who so ever is upset over what so over.. shake it off.. no use being upset.. even if you dont do it now, you will realise it sooner or later.. just that you will feel more stupid when u realise this late :D (yaya, just thinking wont help matters, but it will help u realise things and thinking is needed before acting! so do think and then do act!)

If someone is trying to have "things"(Includes people, things, situations etc) under control that shows how insecure and helpless that person is. Once you have control over yourself, you will never need to be in control of anything else. Things just seem to fall in place :) Not only the want to have things in control is bad, but letting yourself to be controlled can be equally bad as well! Not always, one would say... I would say.. instead of trying to keep things under control, if one gives enough space to be free, to be themselves, one can see that there is no need for control, coz ppl will realise things... Havent we seen enough instances where when you try to keep things too much under your control, it blows up into pieces! just like trying to hold water/sand tight in the hand.. it wont stay.. leave it free on your palm.. it may not(more probability of it staying) run away nywhere :)

Okay ppl.. this is as always, my view abt things.. you are freeeee to post your comments. If you do, please leave behind a name!

What does it take for one to be happy????

Hmm.. back after a long time.. dont know wat exactly the thing tht was holding me back from posting nything.. not tht I hadnt had times where I had absolutely nothing to do.. but still just couldnt post nything.. It happens to me tooo often, I just know reasons for few things, and this is when ppl start guessing.. sometimes I give up to them or come up with some stupid reason which totally screws up everything :P

Okay.. before whatever I write starts to get totally orthogonal to watever title I've given, let me start writing what I intended to write ;)

I really like it when ppl really smile form their heart.. I mean, no pretending. I am no good at pretending, so may be the reason for me to hate it ;) Its really hard to keep smiling frm the heart always na.. I mean there comes times when u have to pretend, smile for others :)
I like observing ppl.. and like it more when they are enjoying the small things in life.. like for eg, an old man playing with his grand child, thoroughly enjoying it! And if someone we think is leading a bad tough life, manages to smile as if there is no troble in this world :) (I saw a guy who collects platic from garbage pile crack a joke with his friend and laugh his heart out!, I couldnt help but smile looking... ) (silly na.. :D who cares :P, I liked it :))
One thing always will remain a mystery.. ppl talk abt balance.. Rich ppl to balance the poor, happy ppl to balance the sad :P, why the imbalance in the first place? beats me! nyways, point is.. at times, is it easIER for someone to be happy than others.. hmmm.. is this wat takes for a person to be happy, "How easier it is for tht person to be happy at tht instant.. considering all the things happening arnd him and the situation he is in....."
Guess so, I mean, u cant come up with a complex equation which would give u the exact probablity of u being happy.. I THINK :P All this is valid, provided, u wanna be happy :D Wanting to be happy is the main driving force I guess, making it easIER or hardER for a person to be happy.

So.. what does it take for one to be happy? The Want,the Need to be happy, is what it takes for one to be happy :)