Becoming good friends....

You might have many good friends... many close ones and many near and dear ones. However, they wont be all that, the instant you meet them.. Ever wondered how it was the first time when you spoke, what about and how stupid those things seem to be now :P (well, not always.. but true most of the times)

I think this happens when you meet anyone for the first time. One would be a little cautious, a little apprehensive, a little conscious, a little of everything and making sure there is not too much of anything.. People will try not to take things too easy or be too friendly at the risk of the other person mistaking you to be someone without much dignity (Should maintain some level rite initially :P) However, its also often true that, with the few people who eventually end up becoming ur good friends.. you will sometime or the other recap as to how things were and how they are now.. its the exact opposite.. amazing rite :)

How would it be.....

"To talk to a person for the first time as if they are already one of your good friends"!?

Best case, might be taken well and reciprocated and voila.. there you go, you got yourself a good friend :D
Worst case, a shut up and get lost look :P
Average case.. well, you will be considered a gone case :D :D

People are very apprehensive to be frank and its for a good/valid reason. It takes time for someone to trust. It hurts the most when your trust is broken.. and thats a valid reason for someone not trust anyone at all.. However, its very hard not to trust anyone.. It would be impossible to survive without trust. And slowly beginning to trust the new person you met.. you get a good friend :) (cant generalize this... few people can still break it :))

Everything in moderation works for most of the cases... (Myself never learnt to do that anyway :) )