Life in the Past lane :P
Was browsing through my own blog few days ago.. looking at the posts I had written long time back.
Actually I felt strange/wierd/silly reading those. Many a times when I had written a post absolutely frustrated, now seemed to be the silliest thing. Something I had felt really bad about, now I can afford to smile looking at it!!!
Now I've been thinking, the simple fact that it seems silly/not so serious, actually make me a fool for feeling so then?! I guess its the same with most of the people.. When was the last time you laughed at yourself for being upset about some stupid thing?! :)
The all important thing here is the "situation" you are in. Now you can aramse think about why what and how.. at that time, your mind wasn't working so well ;) Hmm.. so if this is the case, is it justified for you to laugh at something you were upset about?! Is it justified to feel silly after you thought it was a very serious thing?!
Well, may be it is, may be it is not.. but to laugh and to feel silly about sounds sooo much better than being angry/upset/serious... So, why bother :P
By this time you would have figured out that this is a tooootal time pass post :D But all of this is not timepass, I surely did think about this!! Please leave ur comments regarding what your thoughts are regarding the same...
posted by Unknown at
11:18 PM
7 Comments:
situation - something like a process context! :D
- Srini
@Srini - Can trust you to come up with an anology for everything in life with something in programming, huh!! :P
hey the proof that you are growing...or may be grown is when u turn back and smile at your past days...every thing is just a phase in life...:) once u cross it u find things were silly....happens with everyone.
NO !
It is not good to laugh at the times that you were sad/frustrated/hurt/disappointed and label it 'silly' cos it amounts to undermining yourself (although it was in the past, it was still you !)
It is equivalent to others not being able to see how you felt, to see your problem ! How can you be a stranger to yourself? Give yourself some credit that it couldnt have been something "silly" over which you felt bad !!
@Murali - Neat!!!!! kewl comment man.. I totally agree with ya..
But what I have written in the post is about things(few of the many) which you could have done without being bothered about.. dont tell me you never felt that you got angry over something which was totally un necessary?! and realising that being angry was un necessary is not undermining urself at all...(again..not for all instances)
Yes exactly ! There are some instances over which you can laugh at yourself and which you SHOULD infact laugh at yourself if you are honest and true enuf to yourself....I totally agree with you....After all we are only human.... :-)
@Murali - Atta boy.. you got tht pt :D
Post a Comment
Subscribe to Post Comments [Atom]
<< Home